Who is better?

Interior Design Inspo:_____________________________

I know 2 girls and they have more in common than differences. And it will be easier to summarize their differences:

1. I met (A) at university; while I met (B) at a party.

2. (A) may be naughty (who knows) but pretends to be chaste; (B) admits to her naughty behavior and the fact that she's been with a few guys.

I like (B) more and prefer her company. She is that much more interesting. And I always sense a sincereness in her actions.

In my agenda, (B) is much better. But according to this judgemental society, (A) is better simply because she's never been with a guy (or no one has seen her in action). So, we've left all morals and good deeds aside and concentrated on 'purity'? How unfair is that? And once again, how come (society) judges her for what she does in her own free time?

Once again, I find another reason why I simply cannot blend in here and accept their standards. A few years away have taught me a different set of standards that I cherish.

1. I try my best not to be judgemental

2. I mind my own bussiness

3. I respect people because of the way they treat me, not because of who they are.

Going against the family / culture / society tide is scary. Its waves are so turbulent and aggressive and once thrown at sea, there's a big chance I'll drown. Right now, I am walking the deck with my hands tied together and so many people from this society sticking swords in my back and pushing me further towards the end-line.

If I jump, I will swim and I will find the closest shore to save myself.

Coveted item du jour:

This swimming pool, which reminds me of the one in YSL's moroccon mansion.

Till we meet again,

Sedeso