Watch what you say!

How careful are we supposed to be when it comes to dealing with others?

A work colleague approached me yesterday to advise me on my general behavior. Apparently, I am too innocent and should watch out because this world is filled with liars, hypocrites, and jealous beings. It took me a while and I still didn't have a clue what she was talking about. I asked her to give me a few examples.

"Don't tell people every time you go out to catch a movie. They will wonder where your parents are and how come you are always out till late".

I go to the movies once a week and I'm usually home by 10 (latest). I start work very early so I can't afford to sleep late.

"Don't tell others your aunt is getting a divorce"

But, everyone already knows that. It's not something you can hide.

" Don't show too much of your hair, people will assume all sorts of things about how liberated you are"

But, isn't covering up a personal choice? Plus, I am quiet liberal and no-one has the right to say anything about it.

So now I am expected to watch every word I say so that others don't start assuming things about me? (*sigh*) You know what, I really don't care anymore. I know I'm polite and decent and nothing else should matter.

Also:

It's Su's birthday on the 3rd. I wish I could be there with her. I miss my girls terribly. All I can do is plan for our next reunion.

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Inspiration du jour: (Givenchy)

Till we meet again,

Sedeso