Faithful men

Morgan, Heffernan Weddings Why do some men cheat and others don't?

I am constantly reprimanded for my negativity about the availability of faithful men. Are there any left roaming this earth? Because to me, they're as extinct as the dinosaurs.

What baffles me the most are 2 of my bosses, one in his mid 40's and the other in his mid 50's. And from what I see, they're too good, too chaste and faithful to their wives. How come? It makes no sense at all. He's hot, rich, fit, mature and he has no 20-something-year-old hiding behind the curtains? How?

Dear God, next time I go shopping, I'd like to bag myself one of those and he must be pleasing to the eye like the former 2.

Oh my, I just remembered how during a taxi drive abroad, the older one answered his cell phone to talk to his wife. Would you like to know what he said? Well, he acted like a hormonal teenager and went all lovey-dovey and answered: hey gorgeous? How's my soul doing today? This to a middle-aged woman. Can you believe it?

Well, I'm amazed by this. To me, it's the mystery case of the month, or maybe even year.

But I shall keep in mind that if such 2 happily-married, faithful couples exist, then there must be more, and perhaps, just perhaps one day, I'm this lucky. [Insert FWD 2021: You sure are lucky my child.  And you must learn to count your blessings]

Till we meet again,
Sedeso

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he told me, "it's important to be with someone who respects you . but it's also important for the person to be into you. they don't have to be crazy obsessive or nothin', but their room needs to light up when you walk in . . "

he's right . no one wants to be around someone who makes the day lukewarm. we strive to find someone in life who can make us smile without saying [anything at all]. we strive to find someone who can simply appreciate what makes us... us.

he said, "when your mom walked into the room at a get-together (old folk talk haha), she came right to me. she didn't care about people seein that I was one of the most important people in her life. it was the same with me. when I walked into the room, I went to hug her first ... in front of my homies. there was no need to play games ."

mmm . he's right . being so consumed with how people perceive you can destroy a good thing. people are so worried about the 'he say, she say' . . . well, rumors and judgment can't keep you warm at night. the bullshit will come & go, but a good thing . . . that's somethin to hold on to.

he's said, "you'll always come across someone more attractive ... eventually. there's always gunna be someone that makes you think 'what if I would've dated her?' or 'damn, she bad'. but I knew that there was NO ONE who could love and support me like your mom ."

yup, he's right . imma be graphic so excuse me. but men are so concerned about how fine a girl is and how there are so many to choose from. if you've seen three vaginae, you've seen em all. i mean, honestly ... if sex is the only thing driving your relationships then you're in for a rude awakening. & women are so worried about snatching up ANY guy who blinks in their direction, neglecting the love and support system they need.

he said, "it's all about self-control."

he is right. people think money and sex is the key to feeling powerful, psh . being in control of your own actions . . . that gives the biggest fulfillment. you know that feeling when you don't reeeally wanna do something, but you are tempted and cave in. how small do you feel after? self-control does not come overnight, it takes time and practice. but once it's acquired, you feel your strongest.

yupp, that's what my dad told me today. smart man ."Unquote"