The One

 Whatever happened to The One?

In Jan 2011 he disappeared for a few months.  He called me one day and said he has to go on a private work mission and for me not to worry about him.  Looking back, I should have been suspicious but I didn't have the hindsight, understanding, common sense to figure out patterns.  I was obsessed and blinded by the fairytale in my head.

May 2011, I bumped into a friend at a cafe whilst she was having dinner with her work colleagues.  I made a fool of myself and acted like a weirdo.  I threatened her boss as a joke.  (Little did I know back then that I would end up marrying him and loving him in a mature balanced healthy way).

September The One resurfaced and when I met up with him, I remember knowing deep inside that it was over but I was simply dragging things.  I hated that he had control of me.  After that, he would show up every few months but I didn't care much about him because I started dating Hubby in Feb 2012.  I got married in May 2014 and completely cut of The One and even changed my number.

If I'm not mistaken, he married in 2015 and divorced the same year.  I came across another announcement that he remarried in 2019 and perhaps is still married.  I am occasionally in touch if I need a favor or so but that obsession is completely over.  He did have arranged marriages both times.  I hope he is happy but I genuinely do not care about him at all.  

Till we meet again,

Sedeso