Occasionaly a book comes out that speaks straight to a certain category of consumers and changes their lives. It may inspire them to pursue their dreams. It may help them understand facts. Or it may hit them on the head (BANG) and make them realize what's going wrong in their relationships.What was my conclusion? Well, I am naive, hhmmm, let's get to the point.... I'm basically a DOORMAT. I've allowed so many people to walk all over me. No wonder we never stayed friends.
A healthy relationship should include mutual respect and trust. No party should take the other forgranted and all should be appreciated. Too many rules encompass the perfect relationship and I believe that maintaining it is the hardest achievement ever.
Back to me, I was hit hard in the face by this recent book and I feel SO ANGRY with myself. How on earth did I tolerate not being respected? Why didn't I see the classic signs? Why did I allow such disgusting behaviour to carry on?
And right now: I hate myself for being such a Doormat.
They say : Old habits die hard. All I hope is that in the future I am more aware of what's going on and under no circumstance tolerate such treatment from anyone, regardless of my affection for them.
Till we meet again,Sedeso
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