Sunday, October 01, 2006

Why Men Marry Bitches

An amazing read and very straight to the point. In the worst case scenario, even if the advice in this book is not beneficial to you, it will in no way harm you. So here are my fave tips to share:

1. He doesn't marry a woman who is perfect, he marries the woman who is interesting.

2. When a woman is trying too hard, a man will usually test to see how hard she's willing to work for it. He may tell you on a second date that he likes red toenail polish or that he likes a particular item of clothing. If you immediately begin to work to be what he wants, it lessens his respect.

3. When a man cannot figure out where your insecurities are, you are no longer readable. That's when he doesn't have 100% hold on you, and he has to put his share to win you over, keep your interest and maintain the relationship.

4. When a man sees you wearing very revealing clothes, he'll usually assume you don't have anything else going on for you.

5. Men are extremely insecure about how many other lovers you've had. Anything more than what can be counted on one hand is too many.

6. You do not have to be whatever he wants you to be. Just because he's Italian, doesn't mean you have to cook him plates of pasta and pizzas. Just because he likes cars does not mean you have to learn all about them. Be yourself: It is better to be disliked for who you are than to be loved for who you're not.

7. The fastest way to become boring to a man is to do as you're told.

8. When a woman rushes in too quickly, a man will assume she is in love with a fantasy or the idea of having a relationship. He wants to feel like he won a girl who isn't easily obtained.

9. Don't ever mention the word Commitment. The less you say about it, the closer you are to getting one.

10. Let him become suspicious that other men are pursuing you. It is good for him to wonder a little. But you should never talk about other men directly.

11. You want to figure out his pattern but don't let him figure out yours. Don't answer his phonecalls 100% of them time, and don't always call him back the same instant. He shouldn't feel he could reach you any time or at predictable times of the day.
Hope these tips are useful girls.

Till we meet again,
Sedeso

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