Men and Women: Mars and Venus.
Are we meant to understand men? Are they meant to understand us? Or are we meant to remain in conflict for eternity never comprehending what makes the other sex really tick?
I believe I am very frustrated with The One and I think I know part of why I turn from honey to bitch with him. I am frustrated with him mainly because of fear. What is it that I fear?
I fear the future the most and what may come with it: a break-up or unfaithfulness. I shouldn't be silly but sometimes my love for him feels so surreal.
I am annoyed that he hasn't hinted much of our future together. (Please God, let us have a happily-ever-after future together). And if he was secretly, how come he's not saving up for it?
I am annoyed that he rarely admires my looks although I do put a huge effort all the time.
And I do not understand him fully. It frustrates me that he remains a mystery to me. Is this a good thing? Me not know.
But I know one thing for sure. I adore him. I love him with my all. And something tells me it's not possible to find a better man. Funny, because I do not want anyone else, regardless of how imperfect he may be.
Till we meet again,Are we meant to understand men? Are they meant to understand us? Or are we meant to remain in conflict for eternity never comprehending what makes the other sex really tick?
I believe I am very frustrated with The One and I think I know part of why I turn from honey to bitch with him. I am frustrated with him mainly because of fear. What is it that I fear?
I fear the future the most and what may come with it: a break-up or unfaithfulness. I shouldn't be silly but sometimes my love for him feels so surreal.
I am annoyed that he hasn't hinted much of our future together. (Please God, let us have a happily-ever-after future together). And if he was secretly, how come he's not saving up for it?
I am annoyed that he rarely admires my looks although I do put a huge effort all the time.
And I do not understand him fully. It frustrates me that he remains a mystery to me. Is this a good thing? Me not know.
But I know one thing for sure. I adore him. I love him with my all. And something tells me it's not possible to find a better man. Funny, because I do not want anyone else, regardless of how imperfect he may be.
Sedeso
"Quote" A friend of mine is going through some serious pre-marital baby fever . she's super excited to have a kid one day. the cuddling of the infant in her arms. holding the toddler's hand as they walk through the mall . the first time their kid says, "mama" . you know, the typical stuff . But then we got to wondering, why do we want kids ?
"Unquote"
I'm not asking in a, "I don't like kids, don't wanna have some" type of a way. i mean, why does society need to want to have kids ? my friend suggested that it's strictly for selfish reasons , "we don't HAVE to make babies . there are plenty of babies out there without family's that need a good home ..." and she's right . we make babies because we want to create a life that was once a part of us . A father wants to continue his legacy . A mother wants to be able to say, "that is my blood ... I did that". Bringing a life into the world is a huge deal, and although some people take it lightly, we all have an instinct to make more of ourselves.
"Unquote"
No comments:
Post a Comment