The process of marriage amazes me. It's intense thoughts are more than obsessions. Trust me. On the contrary, every time the thought creeps into my mind, I become alert and push it away, trying instead to focus on other things. And things have been fine, although the idea has crept up quite a few times. The important thing is that I would consider it under control. And when it hurts, I simply look up to the sky and tell HIM: "I give up, I will leave it all in your hands".
I don't want to label it as unjust or unfair. I am simply confused as to why some people are so lucky in life. So, why can't we all get what we want? It's a matter of raising your want, abracadabra and whoosh, your want is a wrapped up gift in your lap.
I've noticed that for some people, it is truly meant to be. The guy is interested in a certain girl, regardless of his/her differences and background. He tells his mother. It takes 5 minutes to convince her. Then he informs his siblings. Some may have their own opinions but in the end they are all up for it. So the guy proposes. He gets a positive reply within a few days. They visit them again to set the dates and within a few months, we receive an invitation card to attend their weddings. Simple. Too simple and straightforward.
But, what I've also noticed in my family is that this process is never smooth and often full of complications that end the process before the wedding itself.
I don't want to label it as unjust or unfair. I am simply confused as to why some people are so lucky in life. So, why can't we all get what we want? It's a matter of raising your want, abracadabra and whoosh, your want is a wrapped up gift in your lap.
Till we meet again,
Sedeso
Sedeso
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