The Mistress

When will I furnish my own home:_____________________________

Am I?

No freakin way....

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His wife called me 2 nights ago. You heard it right.

She cursed her husband: asking me what I saw in him. He was ugly, the son of an Egyptian who didn't even have any money (as if the worth of a man was by his mother or his fortune). She wanted me to tell him how far we've gone and didn't believe me when I said we are only friends nothing more. She asked me if I was aware he had children, I remained quiet. And then she asked me what I had to say and how come I was quiet. My only repeated reply was: I think it would be better if you discussed it with your husband (whilst thinking: keep me out of your business).

I didn't answer back because I was afraid of saying anything that might make the situation worse. I spoke to her in a calm and collected tone, using my reassuring voice. As upset as she was, she ended up calming down, telling me how polite and well brought-up I sounded and requesting me kindly not to contact him ever again. I said fine and that was that.

I cried for so long and so hard, and it all felt so surreal. My heart was aching for the next day too. I hope to God that I am never ever in her place. And somehow, I hope that their marriage survives and strengthens.

Till we meet again,

Sedeso

"Quote" dear insecure girl,

he has a girlfriend. yes. this guy that you are Facebook stalking, texting, sexing and pursuing . . . yes him . he has a girlfriend. you try to numb your mind from your conscience inside that tugs on your heartstrings . you try to justify your actions with, "I don't even know her . I don't owe her anything ." mmm . don't you owe yourself something? some self-respect, integrity, or dignity? I know those are big words that you have not yet grown into. all you understand is your tendency to perform like a retarded chimpanzee. hmm, I don't mean to sound like someone's grandma, but vital values have been lost in the ladies of our generation.

[yes, men are held accountable too & they're wrong. however, this is addressed to my fellow women who allow this triflin' shxt to keep happenin'. so if you let that little fact cloud your judgment, start from the beginning and re-read with a clear mind ... like I was saying: ]

when a guy pursues me and he has a girlfriend, I know I deserve better than to be some boy's 'sideline ho' . even more so, I think about his girlfriend. I have seen too many girls distraught over their boyfriend cheating or leaving them for someone else. I DON'T WISH THAT ON ANYBODY. trust me, I had to learn the hard way. I have BEEN the girl to swoop on another girl's man before and that is just BAD karma. I mean, I never crossed boundaries ...but I never drew the line either. isn't that just as bad? what goes around comes around and trust me ... nobody cheat's God's lesson.

if stealing someone's boyfriend makes you feel 'good' about yourself then you're too insecure for life lol . if you think that qualifies you to be the 'baddest bitch' ...then you're a joke sweetie. being 'badd' doesn't mean opening your legs to make a man cheat. vagina is vagina, "he is not f*cking you for your mind" -thea monyee . messing with another girl's boyfriend only makes you look like a thirst-bucket slut who's desperate. not to mention you lose a lot of respect from people, they'll just call you a "snake". but aren't you? laying on your back & belly ... tryna tempt Adam & Eve from their focus? HMMM, IM JUST SAYIN' LOL .

... to my friends [you know who you are], don't give up on being good women. don't give up on love. Lil ratchet girls always get what they deserve & with time, GOOD men eventually learn what's truly important in their woman. I love you guys :)

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