Stop planning the future, stop thinking and imagining about how they may and can turn out and live today, think of today. Its true our thoughts are so powerful that in many situations they become realities but one cannot spend half his waking time in dreams. This is a problem of mine. I am always living in La-La land, in my own world, immersed in my own thoughts, and half the time, missing out on today because I am unaware of what is going on around me. I thought 2 years back that I suffered from a mild case of ADD but my therapist thinks the opposite.
I imagine how my future will turn out and plan what I will wear, how I will act, what I will say and who I will interact with. Thinking about the future too much has never helped anyone to the best of my knowledge. If anything, they won't be able to achieve much today. It's okay to plan certain things and work towards achieving them but one must not dwell too much in the future.
Another one of the things I have realized is how I plan my outfits. I buy outfits and plan to wear them when the time is right and always have an image in my mind about what the occasion will look like. The thing that has always happened is that the men went away, the relationship ended and I never got the chance to wear those outfits and show them off.
My therapist and many others commented that my mind is always in a different time zone: either the future or the past but never today. I will work on this and succeed at it *fingers crossed*.
And I need to be right here, right now, today.
So here is a small tip from Foz for yours truly: wear your clothes as soon as you buy them, otherwise they may stay hanging in your cupboard for years and not see the light of day or be admired.
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Till we meet again,
Sedeso
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