Thursday, October 14, 2010

My options

I was always advised to keep my options open, especially when it came to matters of the heart.  But this is something I still struggle with.  I am of the one man - one woman type and I believe that 3 is definitely too crowded.  And this is what defines faithfulness in my dictionary: one man - one woman from better or worst, in sickness and in health, from this day forward, till death do they part.

History shows over and over again that those who prefer monogamy are often the losers.  Polygamy is the way to be and remain ahead.  But I never have and hopefully never will be of the polygamous type.  I was put on this earth to be with and be happy with one man only.  I've stumbled upon many many frogs and I hope that The One is my prince charming. Fingers crossed, he is and this is the last of my heartaches.  I cannot go through another disappointment yet again.

M thinks I should see what Nobleman has to offer and her idea of being a 2nd wife to a wealthy man is not a bad option.  It may work for some people like S but not for me.  She also thinks that I should continue to meet other people.

But my heart and body refuse to accept another.  A lot of you ghost readers will probably tell me to keep my options open and not put all my eggs in one basket.  So perhaps keep my options open but I won't go chasing.  If there is meant to be someone else, then he will have to do the chasing.
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Antique style flat in Londres.






Till we meet again,
Sedeso

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